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The bucket list for the two of you

Most couples carry a list around in their heads: Lisbon someday, that dance class, the picnic you've been talking about since May. MomentMal turns it into one shared list that nudges you at the right moment.

A couple raising a glass at sunset above the vineyards, the city in the distance
Finally did it.

Why a shared list works

Couples rarely fail at wanting to do things — they fail at organising them. Who picks the idea, when does it fit, will the weather play along? A shared list takes care of exactly that. You write things down whenever they pop up — on the bus, while cooking, at 2 am — and when a free evening comes along, the idea is already there.

And because you both see the same list, “We should really …” turns into a date pretty quickly.

A couple walking hand in hand down an autumn avenue in the city

What MomentMal does for you

  • One list, two phones: you both see what's new right away
  • Wish, Planned, Done — see at a glance what's coming up
  • Add a date and a place, get a reminder in time
  • Weather tips: the right idea for today, from your own list
  • A photo and a few words for every moment you live
  • “Your year”: your look back together at the end of the year
The list “Time for two” in the app with planned and done ideas

Ideas to get you started

A few ideas from our Date ideas template. There are plenty more in our 100 bucket list ideas for couples.

Start small: write down three ideas — one for this week, one for next month and a big one for someday. You'll actually do the one for this week.

Questions from couples

Does my partner need the app too?

Yes — to share a list, you both need MomentMal. The invite comes as a link, and if your partner doesn't have the app yet, it takes them straight to the right store.

Can we have more than one list?

As many as you like: one for date ideas, one for the next holiday, one just for rainy days. You can also move ideas between lists.

Will my partner see everything I add?

In shared lists, yes — that's what they're for. Private lists stay yours until you invite someone.